No relationship can be perfect. Further, long-term relationships like marriages go through rocky phases, during which couples must try to communicate and resolve issues. However, if issues in the marriage begin taking a massive toll on the quality of life and physical and mental health of couples, then it might be a sign that the relationship needs help or is nearing its end. Here are some signs of a troubled marriage: 1. Feelings of contempt Annoyances and disagreements are a part of every relationship, but if partners start resenting or detesting each other to an unhealthy degree, it could be a sign that the marriage needs help. For instance, many couples believe that, at its worst, a relationship feels like one or both partners are finding it difficult to be around each other all the time. 2.  Excessive criticism Many prefer their partners to be honest with them instead of constantly showering them with compliments. However, excessive criticism can be a sign of a troubled marriage. Going overboard with negative comments can create distance and resentment in a relationship. 3. Feeling controlled Marriages can turn sour when one or both partners feel that their identity or contribution to a given union is being diluted by the other person in the relationship.